Not because you and your in laws are good means that y’all will never have disagreements! Just like not because you and your parents are good means that yall won’t have disagreements either! It all comes down to this, everyone of us have some ways that aren’t always acceptable BUT that doesn’t mean that we have to always be in turmoil!
Figure a way to work around the problem. Respect each other’s opinion, I’m not telling you that you have to like it and agree to it, NO! I’m saying RESPECT it! Everyone sees things differently, we are all unique in our own way.
Let’s all just be one big, happy family! Let your kids see that despite the arguments, you still love one another and there’s nothing more important than FAMILY!