So my question to you guys. Do you think there should be a band on how many children someone can have?
You see, China instituted a policy of 1 child per couple to control population growth in the 1970’s and that was in effect for about 3 decades. Apparently now they’re considering changing it to 2 children per couple. Their population is about 1.3 billion people, hell that’s ALOT!
My question however, comes about for more than one reason. While some may say that it’s wrong to tell someone how many children they can and can’t have, you have to think about it. Would it be fair to a child whose parents are unable to provide for him/her to continue making more babies? They aren’t using protection and knowing their predicament, won’t you say they’re being selfish as they aren’t thinking about the repercussions of their actions? The effects it can have on the child in future?
Honestly, I think if a couple is able, they can have how much ever kids they want. Once they can provide a safe and nurturing environment for them and won’t be depending on the government to assist in minding them. On the other hand, if a couple knows that they aren’t capable of taking caring of kids but already have one, just stop there. Do your best to ensure that one child has everything he/she needs. Don’t go having more babies and you know very well that you live in poverty and later on may complain that you need help raising your children and you’re poor etc….because you know this was gonna be a problem in the beginning!
Actions have consequences! The sad part is it’s the kids that’s gonna suffer not the parents. Stop studying to feel good when the day or night come(as it doesn’t matter for some) and study what the outcome may be from having unprotected sex. Come on people, let’s think more with our head and less with what’s between our legs!!
Looking forward to hearing you guys’ thoughts in the comments…….