I have experience with both because before we got pregnant we were renting and I was very happy to be honest. However, when we found out we decided to move back home as the money spending in rent could go towards the baby. At first, we came here(by my in-laws) and then we went by me up until K was 3mths and then an issue arose and we left. Since then we’ve been up here.
The thing is, I miss being on my own. I miss having my own space and even though my hubby thinks it was a waste of money, I don’t. As I’ve always told him, whether or not it sounds stupid, if I have to pay for my sanity I will! No questions asked, because I think as a young family and married couple, we need our own space. I don’t know how much longer I can take sharing a space with anyone, whether it’s my parents or in-laws.
So talk to me. What would you prefer?